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A Love Letter To You: How to Figure Out If You Already Found The "One"

Yes, you! Ever wonder why are you still single? Or maybe you're out of the relationship right now. You want to know when is the time you will bump into your better half and if that happens, what are you going to do? What to look out for? No worries, I got you! Listed here are 6 qualities/ways on how to exactly know-how. Read on!

Readiness. Have you ever met someone so accomplished? To the extent that you want to go near them? They are so attractive. They possess the qualities of a good potential partner, not only their looks but you must look from the inside-out. They are stable. They value family so much. They just radiate good vibes and positivity that you may want to spend so much time with them and you don't mind if the conversation gets late! They also have good sets of qualities--polite, smiles often and says "please" and "thank you". They are well-educated and have good manners. They are kind and accommodating. Not to mention, nice-smelling and is super presentable. You know someone who is a potential partner if a lot of what I have mentioned can be ticked on the checklist!

Openness. You did go on a date or maybe you just had a good conversation from someone who you just met, you surprisingly realized that this person is so relatable and agreeable that you can go on and on with any random topics without worrying where the conversation will go. You just found yourself flying with that person through thoughts and you enjoyed the company so much. Openness is key to start getting to know each other. You will know someone who is a match if he or she possesses this quality!

Empathizes. You know a person is a good fit for you if he or she knows how it feels to be in someone else's shoes. For instance, they have a concern about the person who swipes shoes because they know that it is a decent job. They are good at initiating and considers your feelings so much. So when the time comes that you need someone who understands, you know where to go to.

Compromises. You get into an argument with the person but to your surprise, he or she knows how to meet half-way. That person knows how to abide by your terms. And even considers what you like. They always choose what's good for the relationship. When difficult times happen, you know you can count on to him or her. Nothing is more appealing and attractive when your person knows how to be considerate and takes care of you.

Accepts. It's alluring when a person is contented and welcoming. You know you got everything that you need when he or she steps into the room. The calmness, there is a sense of peace in that person that when you come in contact with him or her the way that person approaches you is just so enough as well. You will really feel you are accepted, whatever you are.

Loves Unconditionally. This kind of love if God-like. It just gives and gives without expecting anything in return, the kind of love that is pure and just being freely given. The love that saves, the kind of love that bursts and it's a lot, you can't control--in a very good way. When you find someone who shows his or her affection like this, don't ever let go of that person.

Sure, it isn't easy to be in a relationship nowadays but I hope this helps you find your person!

And as always, I'm with you through peace and love.

Malen

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